40 day love dare! ADVERTISEMENT..u want in??

Inspiration? Movie: Fireproof
Dedication? 40 days of random acts of love & kindness
Mission? Spreading the love...

WHY? Showing love isn't about feelings! Coz that means that when u feel horrible, u act horrible to people around u. Love is about ACTION. Doing things that make someones day a little bit brighter, and yours as well!

FOR ALL THOSE WHO CONSIDER THEMSELVES...independent minded, FUN, spontaneous, GIVING...

INTERESTED?? Lemme know...we can get this thing going!

New hangout joint! a.k.a socializing....

Finally!
Picture it; a group of girls drop of from the bus, ties lose, sweaters off, bags hanging, and lots of LOUDDDD laughter and disses!

There is a new joint opening between this month and next at Valley Arcade. Even a "quiet" (i'm not really) girly like me...you'll be seeing me around there with the Bus 4, Kile...gang!  The usual suspects (V, Sensitive (that's u babe, remember peermentoring names??), Lyd- those white glasses rock!, Try, Dai, Lath...and whoever else!)

This brings me to my new focus;

Be outgoing. Being shy won’t win you any new friends. You’re going to have to get out there and talk to people. You cannot be afraid to talk to others.
Whether it’s chatting up people in class or at lunch, sitting and talking to different people, getting out and about, getting the best grade on tests or winning an athletic contest, make your name known. Everybody needs to know who you are.
Like people and show it. Be friendly and interested in people, and many of them will like you back. You don't win popularity by hiding in the corner or expecting people to approach you and suddenly appreciate you for the true gem you are. If you're shy, make friends with really outgoing people. They will encourage you to talk to other people, and soon it will be easy for you. Make sure to talk about things that other people are interested in.
People are really passionate about talking about their interests.(Be yourself) If you're the humorous type, throw in a joke now and then, but only when the time is right. You'll look stupid if you joke around at the wrong time.

Urban dictonary- 'bout music, disses, facebook

Toilet Mummy-
When someone is so concerned about toilet seat germs, they cover the seat with half a roll of toilet paper, leaving it to appear like it has been mummified.

Slow Burn-

 An insult that doesn’t sink in for awhile

shuffle shame -
"Shuffle shame" is when your mp3 music player is playing on speakers in shuffle mode, and somebody enters the room at the exact moment the worst song of your collection is being played.

Facebooger-

	An unsightly or unwanted comment or post left on your facebook profile or wall. e.g. Ah man! Someone left a facebooger on my prom picture... :( How do I get rid of this facebooger that someone just left on my wall?!

Faceboo-hooer-
A Facebook whiner. Someone whose Facebook status updates constantly refer to a state of sadness, despair or gloom.

Faceboocrastinatin'- 

Faceboocrastinating is the putting aside of primary tasks in order to spend time on facebook

'Hey man do you want to join our study group?'
'Yeah I'll join but I'll probably just spend my time faceboocrastinating.'

 Facebook Chicken-

	When two people would like to add each other as friends, but don't want to be the ones who make the friend invitation. This puts them in a game of Facebook Chicken, where they wait until the first person gives in to making the first add invitation.

Hit and Run!

"Human beings are a mass of complex contradictions"

Relationships are a wierd thing...there are situations in life that are really hard to prepare for. How do you talk to someone who is so trapped in a web of deceipt and pain?

Where do you draw the line?

Is it ok to detach from a friend even if they have confided private things? Even if what they tell you goes against everything you believe and they know it? What the difference between setting boundaries and judging?!

People almost always have different expectations of intimacy.

Some people want to move right next to your heart, set up camp and damp their dirty, filthy laundry all over your arteries!!

so how does one gauge....what next....

Perception; Catch 22

The schoolbuses begin to stream out of the parking...
Gently rollicking, rumbling underfoot
Musky, slight stench of school snacks and plastic seat covers,
Sunshin streaming
windows faintly layered in dust
bag straps-seat belts dangling...

BURSTS of laughter!
Shrieks and fits and belly-aching fun!

Random, POINTLESS chatter,
Uncomfortable sleeping positions...
necks twisted , legs suspended, hair ruffled snores muffled...

Fashion & Form & Femininity. Alice bands!

Not only are headbands one of the biggest trends of 2010...
A beautiful headband is the fashion staple of every female!

Reasons?
-Headbands disguise bad hair days and frizz

-They are a chic and subtle way of expressing yourself...ur fav color, ur mood...even the most conservative girlie could wear something risque like leather or animal print!

-SOOO girly and feminine, in these days of butch, aggressive fashion...it's oh so gorgeous to be ladylike!

-what other fashion piece could be so practicle and comfortable?

-seriously how long does it take to put one on?!!